Unique Self Becoming

Unique Self Becoming is one-to-one work for the person who has done real work and still feels the gap between what they understand and how they live. I am not here to fix you. I am here to walk with you through breath, through truth, through the body’s unfolding. I am a body-based psychospiritual facilitator of my clients’ evolutionary process, and a servant of presence. Understanding isn’t the same as embodiment. Together we follow breath, sensation, and insight until the next piece of you unfolds, drawing on Core Energetics and fifty years of non-dual study. What’s stuck in your body is, quite simply, access to your deepest heart’s desire. Sessions are in person in Orange County, North Carolina, or online.

Who is this for?

This is for the person who has meditated, read the books, and done the inner work, and still finds that the insight does not land in how they walk through a Tuesday afternoon. There’s this gap between knowing and being. We live from our bodies, not our minds.

If you’ve felt the ache beneath a “good” life: the breath that never quite drops all the way in, the sense that something in you is waiting to be remembered. You are already on the path.

You don’t need to be ready. You don’t need to be whole. You don’t need to know how.

Who is this not for?

This is not therapy. It is customized, embodied, psychospiritual education, not a clinical intervention. This work does not replace clinical help: people with a disease or condition should see an appropriate clinician. If you are in acute crisis, please contact a licensed clinician or emergency services (911 in the United States) before anything else. This modality makes no assumptions about your health other than the assumption that you are healthy enough to learn.

It is also not a fixed program. No two clients receive the same work.

What happens in a session?

A session is a one-to-one conversation held in the body as much as in words. There is no rigid agenda, only the living rhythm of what’s true right now.

Together we follow breath, sensation, and insight. That can mean guided movement and breath that soften tension and wake aliveness. It can mean dialogue linking sensation, story, and insight. It ends with simple actions to weave what the session showed you into daily life.

Online, clients find a private space, usually at home, where they can move their bodies and make sounds without concern about being interrupted or disturbing others. When movement or vocalization is what is called for, I guide you in doing it safely over video. In-person sessions are held in Orange County, North Carolina. Appointments are Tuesday through Thursday.

This is the path of the Unique Self—the you that was always here, beneath the strategies, the adaptations, the armor. The Unique Self teaching is Marc Gafni’s. It sits alongside Core Energetics, non-dual practice, and Ken Wilber’s Integral framework in how I work.

This is not a one-time process. No single weekend retreat or consultation will free up your energy blocks. It is a process for those of us committed to lifelong learning.

What does it cost?

Sessions are $150 per hour. The first package is five sessions for $500, which comes to $100 a session. From session six, sessions are $150 per hour. The first conversation is free. This work is not billed to insurance.

What is the first step?

You are not here to become someone else. You are here to remember who you’ve always been—and embody it in every part of your life.

The first step is a free 30-minute conversation. No pressure. No pitch. A real conversation about your next step. You answer a few questions beforehand, and I read them before we meet. If I think someone else would serve you better, I will say so.

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Ronen Goddard, PhD, CCEP, is a Core Energetics practitioner, a founding member of Ken Wilber’s Integral Institute, and the founder of Integral Becoming.